HUMAN SEXUALITY COURSES SHOULD BE MANDATORY!

I’ve long held the belief that education and information are the building blocks to empowerment. One of the main ways I envision truly empowering the gay community is by educating and informing gay men and women about human sexuality.

Today I had the misfortune or rather the fortune of having a conversation with a gay man regarding a heterosexual male who likes to be on the receiving end of sexual intercourse, that is he liked to be the receiver during anal sex.

I stated:

What does sexual orientation have to do with sexual behavior? Being a penetrator doesn’t make you gay or straight. Being a receiver doesn’t make you gay or straight. Sexual Orientation is determined by enduring sexual D-E-S-I-R-E. It has little to nothing to do with what you do if you do anything at all. Someone isn’t more gay because they like to receive.

They countered:

“what? if your man sleeping with another man your Gay point blank period.”

I stated:

No unfortunately that’s not how human sexuality works. That may be how closed minded and judgmental individuals work but that is not how human sexuality work.

Are you saying that any man who has sex with a woman is heterosexual?

For any gay men and women who share that young mans sentiment I encourage you to take a human sexuality course. I promise you that enrolling in it will be instrumental in debunking many of the myths and fantasies so many gay men have about humans and sexuality.

This notion that doing THINGS are what make you gay. Yeah definitely no truth to that.

Your sexuality is about whats between your ears not whats between your legs.

You don’t even need anything between your legs nor do you need to be able to use those things between your legs if you have them.

This notion that sexual orientation has something to do with whether or not you have a penis or a vagina, use that penis or vagina, and the way in which you choose to use that penis and vagina is nothing more than fictional narratives that many of you uninformed and uneducated men have chosen to craft and construct.

I would encourage everyone to think and I mean really think about the falsities you subscribe to at your own and others detriment.

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